Ellen Pompeo and Husband Chris Ivery Grew Up 10 Miles From Each Other but Met in 2003

Meredith Grey has romanced her fair share on doctors on Grey’s Anatomy over the past 17 seasons (including Derek Shepherd, Finn Dandridge, Nathan Riggs, and Andrew DeLuca), but IRL, actress Ellen Pompeo only has one man in her life. She and her husband, Chris Ivery, have been married for over 13 years, and together they share three children: 11-year-old Stella Luna, 6-year-old Sienna May, and 3-year-old Eli Christopher. Though Ellen loves sharing pics of her kids, she’s pretty tight-lipped about Chris, and since he’s not on social media, he’s a bit of a mystery. Check out the gallery for everything we do know about Ellen’s husband.

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