Who Are the Grey's Anatomy Cast Dating? Here's the Scoop on Their IRL Love Lives

Ellen Pompeo and her music producer husband, Chris Ivery, became friends in 2003 after they met in an LA grocery store, but they didn’t start dating until six months later. They tied the knot in 2007, and they have since welcomed three children together: 11-year-old Stella Luna, 6-year-old Sienna May, and 3-year-old Eli Christopher.

Chandra Wilson and her partner have been together for over 30 years, and though he’s accompanied her to a few events over the years, she’s never publicly revealed his name. The two have welcomed three children together: 27-year-old Sarina, 22-year-old Joylin, and 15-year-old Michael.

James Pickens, Jr. and his wife, Gina Taylor-Pickens (who’s a former member of the music group Musique), have been married for over 36 years, having walked down the aisle in 1984. Together the couple have raised two children named Gavyn and Carl.

Kevin McKidd and his chef wife, Arielle Goldrath, got hitched in March 2018, just over a year after Kevin finalized his divorce from his first wife of 17 years, Jane Parker. He shares two children with Jane – 20-year-old Joseph and 18-year-old Iona – and he has welcomed two more children with Arielle: 2-year-old Aiden and 1-year-old Nava.

In May 2019, Jesse Williams went public with his current girlfriend, actress and dancer Taylour Paige, and as of December 2020, the two are still going strong. It’s rumored the two first met when Taylour appeared in a 2016 episode of Grey’s Anatomy, but the couple have never confirmed that claim. Jesse was previously married to real estate broker Aryn Drake-Lee for five years before filing for divorce in April 2017. The exes share two children together: 7-year-old Sadie and 5-year-old Maceo. The actor also briefly dated Minka Kelly, his costar from The Butler, before getting together with Taylour.

After more than 10 years of marriage, Caterina Scorsone filed for divorce from her musician husband, Rob Giles, in May 2020. During their decade-long marriage, the couple welcomed three children together: 8-year-old Eliza, 4-year-old Paloma “Pippa” Michaela, and Arwen, who was born in December 2019. At the moment, it doesn’t seem as though Caterina is dating anyone new.

Camilla Luddington and her actor husband, Matthew Alan, first met while working at an LA restaurant together, and the two dated for more than 10 years before he popped the question on New Year’s Eve 2018. The couple then tied the knot in August 2019, and together they share two children: 3-year-old Hayden and Lucas Matthew, who was born soon after their first wedding anniversary in August 2020.

Kelly McCreary met her director husband, Pete Chatmon, on the set of Grey’s Anatomy back in 2017, and the couple dated for two years before they said “I do” in May 2019, just five months after they got engaged. Before getting together with Pete, Kelly was tight-lipped about her private life, so it’s unclear whether she had any other serious relationships in the past.

In April 2019, Giacomo Gianniotti married makeup artist Nichole Gustafson in Rome. The two first met on the set of a photo shoot in Beverly Hills, and they got engaged on Thanksgiving 2017 after more than a year of dating.

Kim Raver met her French film-director hubby Manu Boyer at a pool in 1999, and a year later, the two got married. During their two-decade-long marriage, the couple have raised two children together: 18-year-old Luke West and 13-year-old Leo Kipling.

Greg Germann and his second wife, elementary school principal Martha Champlin, reportedly walked down the aisle in 2013, though it’s unclear how and when the two met. Before Martha, Greg was married to actress Christine Mourad, with whom he shares one son, 23-year-old Asa August.

In November 2018, Jake Borelli came out as gay to his followers on Instagram, and though he has never publicly spoken about who he’s dating or has dated in the past, he seems to be single at the moment.

Chris Carmack met his wife, musician Erin Slaver, on the set of the TV series Nashville, where Chris starred as Will Lexington and Erin played a backup singer for Hayden Panettiere‘s character, Juliette Barnes. In March 2016, Chris decided to pop the question, and six months later in August 2016, he and Erin welcomed their daughter, Kai, who’s now 4 years old. After a long engagement, the couple finally got married in October 2018.

Richard Flood and his wife, Italian actress Gabriella Pession, met on the set of the TV series Crossing Lines in 2012. Two years later, the couple welcomed their son Giulio, who is now 6 years old, and in September 2016, Richard and Gabriella tied the knot in Italy.